I admit it!! I was scrolling and fell into the rabbit hole of Reels!! Consequently, I came across a reel titled “No Fuxs.” Now mind you, any other time I would laugh and find the humor, but on this occasion, I had a different thought.
At one time in my life, I was a strong advocate and supporter of the “no fuk school of thought.” I would say I hold a graduate degree. Nevertheless, I find myself now taking issue with this kind of thinking. I would like to offer this new thought if you happen to be a part of this group or not.
Here is my new idea…
If we are giving no motherf*king fuxs about anything, we must include ourselves in the “no f*k” equation. This means we are giving “no fuxs” about ourselves.
Most importantly, I have come to understand that when we do not give a “fuk,” we have decided not to feel, love, learn, or grow as a person and human. This decision translates to not live in our authentic truth. The reality of the matter is … you must feel to live.
We do ourselves a disservice
What happens as a result of this disservice? We deplete precious energy and focus when we give a f*k about somebody else’s whack a** sh*t. That’s time and energy we could have been giving a f*k about our self. Think about that the next time you are giving “no fuxs” away!!!
In truth, Life does not happen in a vacuum, so you have to give a “fuk” about something and make sure you are one of those choices! I ask you to please sit with that in a moment of devotion to yourself!
AS one lover to another, may I suggest…we practice responsibility and choose our “no fuxs” wisely!!! Value yourself, time, and energy. Cheers!!
“it’s your road and yours alone. others may walk it with you but no one can walk it for you – Rumi”
Would I lie to ya! Nah! 💜
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